If you're eager to dive into the world of tarot reading, your first task is to select a deck from the approximately 8,000 available options. What resonates with one person might not work for another. Some readers are comfortable with multiple decks, while others find a single deck that speaks to them. Over time, you may find yourself transitioning between different decks. Interestingly, the deck you prefer for personal readings might differ from the one you use for others.
When I first started reading tarot, I chose the Crowley Deck, which proved too intense for me. The dark imagery gave me nightmares, and I eventually sold it. I then switched to the Rider-Waite Deck, a versatile and beginner-friendly option. After a few years, I fell in love with the Renaissance Deck, which offers more elaborate imagery and pointed meanings, especially for relationships. Later, I yearned for simplicity and switched to the Palladini Deck, known for its pure and light-hearted feel. Now, as an experienced reader, I've returned to the Crowley Deck and also use the Order of the Golden Stair Deck, both of which have a heavier feel.
While there are many specialty and eclectic decks available, starting with a Rider-Waite-based deck is like attending high school for tarot readers. Here are some beginner-friendly options:
You can find a variety of tarot decks online or in stores. However, most store owners won't let you open and handle the decks due to packaging constraints. Therefore, it's a good idea to do some online research first. Websites like Aeclectic Tarot offer comprehensive reviews and images of various decks.
When you visit a store, pick up the deck and see if you like the feel of the cards. The weight, texture, and imagery should resonate with you. If you feel a connection, that's likely the deck for you. It's also helpful to choose a deck that comes with a small guidebook for quick reference.
Once you've chosen your deck, spend time familiarizing yourself with each card. Study the imagery and memorize the meanings. This process can be slow, as there are usually 78 cards to learn. Some tarot teachers recommend placing the deck under your pillow at night to absorb the information subconsciously. You can also meditate or dream upon individual cards by placing them under your pillow.
Some readers like to "charge" their cards by praying, meditating, placing a crystal on them, or exposing them to the light of the full or new moon. Others believe in storing their cards in a special box or silk pouch to enhance their power. While I personally don't think this makes a significant difference, the ritual can add to the magic of tarot reading.
Many readers avoid letting others touch their cards to prevent "infecting" them with external beliefs, fears, or anxieties. Since the cards act as a portal to the other side, keeping them away from others can prevent the transfer of potentially toxic energy.
Spend time getting to know your cards. Play with them, look at them, and build a relationship with them. Your deck will become your best ally in tarot reading.
Stay tuned for our next installment: Crash Course in Tarot #3: Card Spreads.
By understanding the nuances of choosing and using a tarot deck, you can set yourself on a path to becoming a skilled reader. Happy reading!
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