The Journey to Unity in Marriage

The Biblical Perspective on Unity

Walking Together in Agreement

The Bible emphasizes the importance of agreement in relationships. Amos 3:3 states, "Can two walk together, except they be agreed?" This highlights that without mutual understanding and agreement, a couple cannot truly walk together in harmony. If one partner seeks to dominate, they will end up walking alone, even if they are physically together.

The Strength of Two

Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 provides profound insights into the strength of unity:

• "Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labor."
• "For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up."
• "Again, if two lie together, then they have heat: but how can one be warm alone?"
• "And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken."

These verses illustrate that a united couple can achieve more, support each other in times of need, and withstand challenges together.

Complementary Strengths

In a marriage, each partner brings unique strengths and abilities. For instance, one might have analytical skills while the other is quick to spot deceit. These complementary strengths can uphold and support each other, creating a balanced and effective partnership.

The Role of Faith

When both partners make Jesus the head of their relationship, their unity is strengthened even further. Matthew 18:19-20 says, "Again I say unto you, That if two of you shall agree on earth as touching any thing that they shall ask, it shall be done for them of my Father which is in heaven. For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there am I in the midst of them." This underscores the importance of seeking divine guidance together to achieve true unity and protection.

The Hierarchy of Relationships

Understanding the hierarchy in relationships can provide clarity and direction:

• Father (Head)
  • Son
  • Holy Spirit
• Jesus (Head)
  • Husband
  • Wife

John 17:23 states, "I in them, and thou in me, that they may be made perfect in one; and that the world may know that thou hast sent me, and hast loved them, as thou hast loved me." This verse emphasizes that true unity with each other is only possible when we are united with God.

Conclusion

In conclusion, becoming one in marriage is not about one partner overpowering the other but about mutual agreement, support, and faith. By understanding and embracing each other's strengths and seeking divine guidance, couples can achieve true unity and withstand any challenges that come their way.

Interesting Statistics

• According to a study by the National Marriage Project, couples who share religious beliefs and practices are more likely to report higher levels of marital satisfaction and stability (Source: National Marriage Project).
• A survey by the Pew Research Center found that 61% of adults in the U.S. believe that shared religious beliefs are important for a successful marriage (Source: Pew Research Center).

By focusing on mutual agreement, complementary strengths, and shared faith, couples can build a strong and enduring marriage that truly embodies the concept of 'becoming one.'

© by Joyce C. Lock

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