Are you yearning for a soulmate, someone to share your 'happily ever after' with? Before you place your order with the cosmos for that one true love, ask yourself: Are you truly ready? Have you made space in your life for this person to fit beautifully? This article explores the concept of being ready for love, the importance of making room for it, and the steps you need to take to attract your soulmate.
When we desire something new in our lives, we must first create space for it. This principle is rooted in the laws of manifesting, which dictate that two things cannot occupy the same space. For instance, when we want new clothes, we clear out the old ones from our closets. This act signals to the universe that we are ready for a new wardrobe. Similarly, if you want to attract a soulmate, you must make room in your life for them.
Being free to fall in love doesn't just mean being single. You can be emotionally married to your job, hobbies, workout routine, children, pets, church, parents, or even the memories of a past relationship. These attachments can take up the space meant for a romantic partner. To attract true love, you must ensure that these aspects of your life are in balance and do not replace the love that only a romantic partner can provide.
If you are currently in a relationship but seeking a new love, you are sending mixed signals to the universe. This behavior indicates a lack of trust in the universe's ability to provide real love and a lack of strength to uphold your end of a relationship. If you cannot show integrity towards your current partner, how can you be honest with a new one? Soulmates are not magical healers; they are your twin soul. If you are not strong enough to wait for the right one, you cannot have that one.
Desperation and neediness are not the foundations of a healthy relationship. If you are not strong enough to be alone, you are likely to attract someone who is not your true match. Relationships created out of desperation rarely work out. You must be romantically unattached when you begin your search for love. It's a matter of karma, trust, and fairness.
This is not about self-criticism but self-reflection. Imagine your perfect match is out there searching for 'happily ever after' just like you. Are you the kind of person they would want to find? Look in the mirror and ask yourself if you are worthy of your own love and attention. Until you become the person you want to find, you will not recognize your twin soul. Becoming the type of person you wish to attract will make it easier for you to recognize and accept each other.
Is your life inviting and warm? Would it nurture or challenge true love's growth? Ensure that the space in your heart, life, and bed is ready for your soulmate. My father used to say he had pockets sewn all over his heart, each reserved for a special person. Is the 'happily ever after' pocket of your heart big enough and ready? Is there space for real love in your life?
If you want to attract a magical, cosmic kind of love into your life, you must first look at your current life. Is it inviting and warm? Would it nurture or challenge true love's growth? Are you ready, really ready? Ensure that the space in your heart and life is cleared out and available for your soulmate. Only then will you be truly free to fall in love.
Copyright 2004, Skye Thomas, Tomorrow's Edge
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