The day I found out my best friend has Aids

Apr 9
10:34

2006

Max Weber

Max Weber

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Aids is an abbreviated form for acquired immunodeficiency syndrome. It is like a plague of the twentieth and twenty first centuries. In most cases Aids is a fatal disease, but sometimes people with Aids live many years with it.

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I know about Aids from my childhood – teachers showed colored posters and explained that Aids is a very serious disease and people die from Aids. Later I read about it in different newspapers and magazines,The day I found out my best friend has Aids Articles watched many  TV programs. It was so easy to perceive that about one fourth population of Africa is infected by Aids, that Ukraine is a leader in spreading of Aids in the Commonwealth of Independent States and that Hollywood stars and other public persons endow millions of dollars for people infected with Aids. It seemed to be so far away from me. Frankly, I wish it would be so forever.

One fine day I found out that my best friend has Aids. It was a hard blow to me – he always looked fine and there were not any symptoms of such serious disease.  I tried to calm down and think how I can help him. The next several minutes seemed to be eternity. The thought that my best friend has Aids just could not find room in my head. I remembered everything I know about Aids and decided my best friend can die soon.  I thought what will be with our friendship? Will it be changed in any way?

Later these thoughts never leaved me in peace and I decided to learn more about the Aids. I searched the Web, turned over the pages of scientific magazines and tried to find a panacea. Of course my efforts gave no results except for increased knowledge about Aids. I tried to imagine how it is to leave and know that one day you will die because your organism will not be able to protect you from diseases. Moreover, nobody can help you and your death is just a matter of time. Your family and friends know that and want to help you but do not know how. Those who knows that you a person infected by HIV, but do not know a lot about it, can avoid you and afraid of being infected. It is especially offensively and maybe painful when ignorant people afraid to communicate with you and it is especially gratefully when educated people show others that they are not afraid of you, that your disease does not make you unwanted friend or colleague.

People with Aids change their lives, views and contacts. Some begin to drink or use drugs – in other words to lead a fast life. Others search salvation in religion and philosophy. As for me I prefer the second choice, but who knows. From the point of philosophy people should not be afraid of death. Death is certain and by the highest standards we expect it through all our life. We have born one day just to die on another. But the point is that to die in an old age is better because there is already something beyond the back – children and grandchildren, successes and failures, achievements and whatever else.

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When I turned all these thoughts in my mind I have understood how I can help my friend. I think that I should be myself in the first turn, our friendship should be the same or even stronger. Additionally I can discuss this problem with my friend and show my personal attitude to this matter – that it makes no difference for me if he is infected by Aids or not. I do not want to say that I do spit upon his disease. I can try to help my friend to find the purpose of his life. To apprehend the death as a matter of course he should obtain something before. Even when your life is short you must realize yourself in anyway. Successful self-fulfillment in life and social utility will alleviate your crucifixion. In any way people infected by HIV can and must be socially useful. If you are infected you should struggle against Aids, HIV, cancer and other disease because this battle is public.

So after gaining such experience I changed dramatically my life and views changed – if before this accident I did not care about Aids and other global problems, now I do care. I often discuss this problem with my friends and spread information about Aids. I try to make other people care about Aids.  Now all global problems do not seem to be far away – they are just in front of me. I understand that only with the joint efforts Aids can be vanquished and when our society will not be divided into those who care and those who do not.

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My friend is still alive and probably will not die within several years. He knows that and I believe that he will meet this event with dignity, pacification and content, because now he realizes himself and serves for our society. His death will be severe ordeal for his family, relatives and friends. But our friendship will not die after that day.

I believe strongly that the battle with Aids will be won, because the good always defeats the evil, in future people will not loose their relatives and next generations will not suffer from such diseases.

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