Before You Plan On Getting Back Together With Your Ex

When your relationship ends, your ex may give off signs of getting back together. They may start to flirt with you and wan to be around you more, but do not take things any further, until you have read this advice.

These are all common signs that there is a chance of getting your ex back. But even if you want them back, do not rush back into the relationship. It is safer to stay casual about the situation and even play hard to get, because this is what will make your ex try even harder.

If you simply jump into getting back together, then your ex may have second thoughts and push you away. In fact, if they are showing signs that you have a chance of getting back with your ex, it may have been spurred on you playing hard to get.

When a break up happens, especially after a long-term relationship, it is natural for us to miss each other, and consider getting back together. This is because you think back to all the good memories you had as a couple and miss that sense of happiness and unity.

But there are also other emotions that surface after the breakup, such as regret. So if you are thinking of getting back with an ex, then there is good chance your ex has the same thought in mind.

Occasionally, though, your ex never really has a true interest in getting back together, but gives off false signs as a way to get your attention and play on your emotions. If they see you still care about them, they may see that as a weakness and use it against you. They do this to feel better about themselves and get some attention while they wait for someone else to sweep them off their feet.

Sometimes your ex may play twisted mind games with you as a way to hurt you for something you did wrong. They will try to win back your affection, and when they do they push you away. So to protect yourself from further heartache, rather take your time and see if they are serious about it, before you plan on getting back with an ex.

So what should you do when your ex show renewed interest in you? You should take your time, play a little hard to get and flirt with them a little. Never leave yourself exposed, and this will protect you from getting hurt if your ex lies about getting back together.