5 Tips For Performing A Lap Dance Like A Pro

Many adult clubs that cater to men feature lap dancing as a popular form of entertainment but you might be unaware that you can give your spouse this sort of sensuous entertainment right in the privacy of your home. To learn how to do a lap dance is not very difficult and will give you and your partner an interesting and exciting twist to your love life. It is possible to learn how to give a lap dance by reading articles and you can also find many demonstration video clips on websites that you can watch. In this article we will cover all of the basics of how to give a lap dance such as costumes, settings and dance moves. 1. Practice Makes Perfect - The very first thing which is needed in order to be trained at how to give a lap dance is a partner. Women who are planning the the dance performance as a surprise for their spouse can use an armchair to rehearse the moves. The armchair is still an essential part of the dance performance because the partner should be seated on it. The partner should be aware that he should not touch the dance performer while the performance is on so that she can do the lap dance properly. This gives the lap dancer control over the situation and could make the performance even sexier for many men. 2. Dress for Success - You will need to think about what kind of sexy outfit that you will wear while you are performing the lap dance. Keep in mind the kinds of lingerie or clothing that your partner finds erotic when choosing your costume. It doesn't have to be fancy or outrageous as long as your intended audience finds it exciting. 3. Set the Scene - For the lap dance performance to work well, you need to make sure that room where the performance is intended to take place, is suitably decorated to give the romantic feel . Major renovations are not necessary but some time and thought should go into creating the right atmosphere. You can use scented candles and other decorative items. The light fittings of the room can be draped with colored scarves to create a dimly lit feel. Choice of music is also very important and it should go well with your dance performance steps. To start with, play some soft music that helps to bring in the romantic mood and then go on with fast beats that matches well with your dance routine. It is crucial that you are not interrupted while doing the lap dance. Now lets discuss how to lap dance in a sexy and arousing way. 4. Show Your Assets - The person who is receiving the lap dance must be seated over the armchair and they need to make sure that their hands are kept by their sides. This would ensure that their hands are not obstructing the moves of the performer. When the music starts the dancer should make eye contact with her partner and move towards him in a sensuous way. Then keeping her hands rested over the back of the chair and one knee in between the legs of her partner, she should try to move slowly in a figure of eight while keeping her back arched so that her partner's attention is drawn towards her breasts. Then keeping her elbow rested on the arm rest she should raise one leg up onto the back of the chair then slowly run her hands down and then up her legs right to her crotch. At this point the performer would try to slide down her body so that it makes contact with that of the partner. 5. Dramatic Conclusion - When you have finished sliding your body down your partner get up slowly in a sensuous way while turning so that your partner will be able to admire your hips, legs and buttocks. Bend over and slowly run your hands all over the entire length of your legs. While placing your finger on the crotch area, turn your head slowly to give a sexy look at your partner. While your back is still turned move to the chair and lower your body until it is almost touching your partners groin. Undulate your body in an erotic figure eight and then in a forwards and backwards motion over your partner. Your lap dance performance is now finished so now you need to decide if you are going to let your partner use his hands!