What you say on the first date is absolutely critical to your success. That's why you should take a close look at the following first date conversation topics.
Engaging a woman in conversation may be a challenge to many guys, but it is often far more difficult to move things beyond the conversation and into the bedroom. Unless you find that rare woman, learning the art of seduction is a necessity for making things more intimate with a woman.
Are you one of the many guys having problems getting a woman to have sex with you? If so, don’t worry. There is hope. All you need to do is learn the proper technique and practice.
In this article, I will provide you five seduction tips that can make it far easier to take things to an intimate level with your woman of interest. Simply take the time to learn the techniques and implement them properly. It will be worth the time and effort in the end.
Seduction Tip No. 1 – Attract Her to You
Before you can even begin seducing a woman, you must first ensure she is attracted to you. Otherwise, the remaining four seduction tips will be of no use.
The best way to start is to introduce sex into the conversation. When you are first talking to her, be sure to flirt with her and bring in some sexual innuendos or humorous sex-related stories you "heard awhile back."
Also, do not hesitate when it comes to teasing her. Teasing a woman in a sexual manner, though not offensively, can add to the sexual tension and make her much more attracted to you.
Seduction Tip No. 2 – Initiate Physical Contact
This is possibly the most important seduction tip out of the five. When you are talking with her, be sure to touch her slightly when you want to emphasize something or make a point. Of course, do not take this overboard. Keep in mind that it is about gradually building the attraction and rapport.
Initiating physical contact is important because it helps her become more comfortable with you. It is also a good clue for you to determine her true level of interest. If she continues to shy away upon your touch, she is probably not interested in you as a potential date or a sexual partner.
Seduction Tip No. 3 – Move from Public to Private
This tip is, definitely, a pre-requisite to the last two tips. It is important that you move things to a private location where you can actually make things more intimate. Unless you like the idea of sex in an open bar or public establishment, you will want to take things to one of your homes before heating things up.
To accomplish this, though, she has to trust you which is partially why steps one and two are so important. They both contribute to increasing her trust level since the more comfortable she is with you, the more she will trust you.
So, when you are talking to her and flirting, focus on appearing to be trustworthy. You may know you are, but it is important that she feels the same way and gathers that impression from you. Be careful not to say anything strange of “off the wall.” The greater the trust she has, the easier it will be to seduce her later.
Once she feels you are trustworthy, it will be far easier to move things from the public place to a more private location where you both can be more comfortable and relaxed.
Seduction Tip No. 4 – Kiss Her
Now, do not just kiss her. You must kiss her passionately!
Once you have moved to a more private spot, you can make things more intimate and physical. Here’s how...
You should see signs that she is attracted to you after you have been touching her for awhile. At this point, you can begin kissing her. Like I said: do not just give her a kiss! How you kiss is important. Go slowly. Do not stick your tongue down her throat immediately.
Remember, kiss her slowly and lightly. Gradually, you can increase the intensity as you see how she responds.
Seduction Tip No. 5 – Increase the Intensity
As you see, there is a smooth transition from steps four to five. After you have taken your time with kissing her, you can transition from kissing to sex with emphasis on transition. You’re almost there!
After you have kissed her for awhile, begin to tease her. Nibble a little on her neck, kiss her neck and lightly pull on her hair. The goal is to turn her on and make her want more. Take your time and focus on pleasuring her and you.
From teasing, move to other foreplay and progress toward sexual intercourse. However, never forget the importance of taking you time and letting the attraction and desire build slowly.
By following these five seduction tips, you will find it is much easier to become more intimate with a woman and, ultimately, have sex. Learn the tips and practice them. Soon, you will find it really is a simple process!
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