How To Get Back With Your Ex – From Being Broken To Being Whole Again

Breaking up is the hardest part of being in love. However, you should never treat it as a dead end. There are still many things that you can do to win your love back. Here are some of them.
The first step is to think. Think clearly and deeply. Try to figure out what went wrong in your relationship and why it came to an end. Try to realize what the problem was. This is a very crucial step when you are trying to win back your ex because you can never move on to the next step unless you know the cause. Find out if there is a third party involved. Figure out if there are misunderstandings and habits that moved the relationship to the rough road.
The next step is to go back to the first day your ex fell in love with you. Sometimes, all it takes is to make both of you remember why you fell in love with each other. From there on, try to think if there are things that changed. If you became overly possessive when the two of you got together, then maybe you should try to loosen your hold for a while and just learn how to build trust.
The third step is to prepare your heart and mind. Never be too emotional or hysterical in front of your partner especially when you are talking about breaking up. This kind of behavior will only make you look pitiful and it will also drive your ex away. Try to keep your cool and become as logical and reasonable as possible. Tell your ex that you still have feelings for him but never beg him to come to you again. Let him decide that for himself.
The fourth step is also extremely important. You need to find out how your ex feels about you. You need to know if he still has feelings for you. It is also essential to know if he has found a new love. If both of you still have feelings for each other, it will be easier to work things out. However, if he has already fallen for another girl, then you may want to prepare yourself for moving on.
The fifth step is to retain your friendship. Every relationship starts from a good foundation – friendship. It may be difficult to win his heart once again but at least you still manage to become his friend. This will help both of you light the fire of love again if ever it is still there. You should hang out with him together with your other friends.
The last step is to show him that you still care for him in a powerful yet discrete and subtle way. Do not tell him directly because that may confuse him and it may complicate things even more. You can show him you still care for him by sending him occasional text messages telling him that you suddenly remembered him after going to the restaurant or park you would often go to before. Be honest and sincere when you talk with him.