How To Talk To Women - Gain Confidence In 5 Steps

Men usually have a difficult time meeting women. But in reality, it's not the thought of "meeting" ladies the true reason why men are scared. It is well known that most men have no idea how to talk to women.

Men find it very daunting to talk to the opposite sex especially if they feel that they do not have anything exciting to talk about. The good news is that, this is completely natural. Men usually have jitters in the stomach and sweaty palms when talking to women they like.

When you think about how to talk to women effectively you only need to keep it to some very basic principles. So many men try to do a lot more but fail because they don't get the basics right. The top five things to DO and AVOID doing are the following

· 1. Be yourself. Keep in mind to not come across as pretentious when talking to women. Sooner or later, they will be able to notice that you are not being true to yourself. Instead of getting attracted, your bogus personality will repel women away from you. Women see right through it for they are far more observant than men. So always be yourself.

· 2. Do not overwhelm yourself too much, keep calm. When talking to the opposite sex, it is the nature for both men and women to get anxious. It is imperative that you stay calm through the entire conversation. For your mind to stay relaxed, don't think about wanting her to be your girlfriend your sole reason for talking to her. Begin friendly. You do not need to always be able to impress her.

· 3. Look for things you have in common. A way of keeping the flow of the conversation is to find a common interest. You can ask her about her most loved cuisine. Begin from there and then you can chat about your favorite restaurants, chefs, and cooking shows. Having a common interest to talk about keeps the conversation flowing smoothly. Of course, this too will give you the chance to know her more.

· 4. Avoid cheesy pick-up lines. Cheesy pick-up lines are too Jurassic. As referred to, a friendly conversation to start off with will lead to better results. This rescues you from a a lot of uneasy and awkward moments. A wonderful friendship between both of you can be easily developed by practicing it.

· 5. If it seems like the proper time, laugh and smile. Do not be too nervous. Women love men who they can laugh with. So crack jokes (without having to try too hard) and laugh with everybody. Joke around in exactly the same way you do with close friends (if you have made girl friends then you'll be able to do this much more naturally through experience).

Through time, you can perfect the study of learning how to how to talk to women. It is crucial that until the end of the conversation, you stay relaxed. This allows your real personality to be revealed and draw her in through your undeniable charisma.