Mens Wedding Bands -How social networking can help asking him out

The days are long gone when only men were supposed to take a lead in a relationship and propose the girl for a date. Over the past decade, there has been a paradigm shift in the social outlook towards the idea of relationship in general and dating in particular. There has been a definitive shift in the mindset of people with more and more people willing to know each other better, the proposition of going on a date is no long a taboo. Today girls are more open to a going out with someone for a dinner or a movie and in fact, in a lot of cases, they are the ones to propose the same.

Though, the word dating itself is ambiguous. Some people consider a simple dinner or a movie as a date whereas for more flamboyant ones date is anything but a simple dinner or movie, the concept of dating for all practical purposes is to spend time together to know the other person. If one is active on Social Networking Sites, it is easy to observe a pattern in date conversions. It is easier for a girl to ask a guy out for a date as compared to asking out a girl for a date. This is probably because girls are more cautious about dating and have a bigger list of “must have” things as compared to guys who are more driven by basic instincts.

A social networking site is a good place to find guys with the right mix of “must have” items in the offering. However, a lot of these suitable gentlemen would have faked on the profile. Still the alternatives are endless. A friend’s friend’s friend is also eligible for spending time together. Such access to hundreds of eligible people for exploring was not available before social networking came into vogue. Finding the right person on social networking site is a herculean task and requires considerable effort. As it goes, “you can’t always get what you want, but if you try sometimes, you just might find you get what you need”. Out of hundreds of options available, there will be only one lucky man who would finally wear your yellow gold mens wedding bands. However till the time the mens diamond wedding bands finally rests in the right hand, you will have to explore.

The first thing to do before you ask someone out is to have an appropriate status line on your networking site. Writing something subtle like – lone rider or more direct like - Found a mens diamond wedding rings…does it fit you etc gives a clear indication to everyone that one is willing to explore. Once the status is updated, one should shortlist eligible candidates by having filter criterions like avoiding people who are committed, avoiding self-declared eccentrics, maniacs etc. The people whose profile is too good to be true should also be filtered out.

After the filtering is done, the shortlisted candidates should be sent teasers to check his level of interest in you. Sending smileys, writing comments on his posts and appreciating posts is the next step. The reply to your posts will give an idea of the person’s inclination towards you. Once such formal messages become routine, the relationship can be taken to the next level where more personal messages can be sent. If he responds positively to the messages, asking him out would be as easy as ABC. The best approach is to tell him that you are free for the night and see if he asks you out. In case he is unable to take the hint, a more direct approach can be taken. However, one should be very clear and specific about the intention of going out as guys are likely to misinterpret the forward approach. Social networks are great places to meet new people and if approached with caution, one can find the right hand for the golden wedding band.