Reasons not to date Russian women

 The reasons of this popularity are mentioned on many different sources and forums. In this article we will not discuss all the virtues these women possess, but the reasons why a man should not date or contact Russian women.  

  Reason one. Almost any single person nowadays has tried Internet dating sites as a source to find a date, partner, lover or soul mate.  But chatting, dating for fun or playing around online is not the same when it comes to the search for a woman from Russia with the only one purpose – to marry her. The whole process involves a lot more than dating a woman from your town or even from the neighbor state: a man will have to travel to Russia, may face culture difference and language barrier, money expenses, etc, etc.  

  So, before making the first step, a man must think twice and be sure this is all worth for him. If a man is not convinced he is ready for this “journey”, he should not contact these ladies. Women that are registered on these sites are not interested in chatting and correspondence that will last for years. They take internet dating seriously and consider it as a real chance to find a life partner.   

  Reason two. A man should not date a marriage minded Russian woman if he has serious criminal records, has no regular job or stable income, has no real estate big enough to live with his future family. When a man wants to bring a foreign woman into his country, he has to follow strict regulations, rules and procedures. That’s why before starting the process, a man should consult his country authorities, and otherwise he will not succeed.   

  Reason three. If a man thinks that after he brought his Russian wife to his country, it is the end of the road, he should not make any contacts on Russian dating site. It is the second part of the process that will require a lot of time and patience. He will have to help his new wife to find new friends, a job. She will need his support and encouragement to adjust to the new culture, traditions, customs, language, mentality, life style and environment (her new husband friends, relatives, and colleagues), etc. It will take time for her to get accustomed with all this. 

  This article is not made to discourage men to date Russian women. On the contrary, it is written for men who seriously consider looking for a life partner in Russia and other East European countries. To make the search successful and not just waste of time and money, a man should weight out all the pros and cons, be smart and open, have the realistic expectations and remember that relationship and dating online same as in real life should be built on respect and honesty.  Many good examples show that it is all worth it.