Did you know that there are 4 weird rules that governs how you should text with a girl you like. If you don't follow these 4 rules, then you are doomed to fail with her. Read this article to find out exactly what these 4 must-follow rules are and how they'll help you get better at texting girls.
If you are not having the kind of success with texting girls that you would like,
it's probably because you are breaking one or more of these 4 rules.
In this article, you're going to find out what these 4 mysterious rules for texting girls are and why it's so important that you follow them. They might sound counter intuitive and maybe even crazy, but trust me, if you follow every one of them to a tee, you'll have more girls in your bed then you'll know what to do with.
So, with that said, let's cut the foreplay and get to it...
Text Seduction Rule #1: Always Wait For Her To Reply To Your First Text Before You Send Her More Messages
This one is a biggie and it's also the most commonly committed. You know who you are!
The typical scenario goes like this:
"Guy" sends "Hot Babe He Just Met Last Night" a text.
10 minutes goes by. No reply.
"Guy" gets nerves. Thinks to himself, "OMG, what if she doesn't like me. Did I say something wrong?"
"Guy" sends "Hot Babe" a barrage of text. Each successive one more approval-seeking than the last.
"Hot Babe" comes back from the shower to see that her phone has exploded with text messages.
"Hot Babe" gets weird-ed out by "Guy's" stalker-like behavior.
"Hot Babe" dumps "Guy"
The End.
Do You Want This To Happen To You? I Don't Think So!
So don't do what "Guy" did. By doing so, you are only shifting the power over to her side, lowering your value in her eyes, and making yourself seem needy and desperate.
Text Seduction Rule #2: Match (Or Exceed) Her Respond Time
This rule ties in with the last one. You should match a girl's respond time to your texts. So if it takes her around 10 minutes to text you back, you should wait around the same amount of time (or more).
If a girl takes 15 - 20 minutes to respond to each of your text, yet you reply to hers the second that you get them, how do you think that is going to look in her eyes?
That's right! It makes you look like a needy dude who has nothing better to do then sit around waiting for her to text you back. Again, this is a turn off for women.
Text Seduction Rule #3: Just When You Got Her Hot & Horny With Your Sexy Texts...Turn OFF The Sex Talk.
Yeah, I told you these rules are unorthodox, didn't I?
So if your ultimate goal is to make a girl hot & bothered with your text messages, why in the world would you want to turn of the sex talk just when things are getting good?
OK, hear me out.
See, rarely will a sexy text conversation with a girl turn into full-blown sex.
Yes, she might be a little turned on. But she's not quite there yet.
So what you need to do is pull back a little bit. Change the subject to something more neutral.
Then, a little down the road, you can reintroduce the sex talk again and ramp up the heat even more (more details on exactly how to do this in other articles.)
Here's why this is so important.
Every time you turn on the sex talk and then VOLUNTARILY step back from it, you are making her feel more and more comfortable with the idea of sex and you. You are showing her that you are not some out of control pervert (right?) and that you're not going to jump all over her as soon as she show you the slightest bit of sexual interest.
Therefore, the next time the topic of sex comes up, she will be much more willing to get back into it with you.
Pretty sneaky, huh?
Text Seduction Rule #4: Try To NOT Be The Last Person To Text Back When The Conversation Is Ending.
At some point, your text conversation with a girl will come to an end. And when that happens, I want you to make it a point to NOT have the last word.
For example, your conversation with her might go something like this:
You: "Oh wow. It's getting late. I should hit the hay soon. Long day tomorrow."
Hot Babe: "Oh okay, no problem. Yeah I guess it is getting pretty late. K, good night!
You: "Goodnight! Don't you go staying up all night thinking about me or anything"
Hot Babe: "LOL yeah right. You wish! haha"
You should end the conversation right here and leave her hanging.
Notice that you could have just said "Goodnight!" and the conversation could have ended right there. But instead, you added a little tease and baited her to respond back. This way she will be the one with the last word.
OK, I know this sounds pretty childish, but it's actually a very powerful tactic for building attraction.
See, when you don't reply to her last text, it leaves and open loop in her mind. She'll find herself wondering if you'll text her back, or even if you are slightly mad at her.
The point is, she will be thinking about you. And the more she thinks about you, the more she will feel attracted to you. That's just how the human mind works.
These 4 Text Seduction rules are critically to your success as a text game PUA (Pick Up Artist) and if you follow them you'll find your success skyrocketing.
But there is something else you should do if you want to really master this game and that is...
