A lot of guy talk centers around women and how to make them like you. Face it, any bloke in his right frame would want to be the center of attention i...
A lot of guy talk centers around women and how to make them like you. Face it,
any bloke in his right frame would want to be the center of attention in a room full of women. Thinking about such a scene made me want to be the best I could around women. I now have a 2-year relationship with the perfect woman.
Don't worry too much about the mirror. No matter how ugly or handsome, there's always someone better or worse. But, what to do?
Lift your chin. Women go for personality over looks ninety-nine percent of the time. Ari Onassis landed Jackie O. He's not really a handsome man. But he landed one of the world's most charming and beautiful women. Take heart.
Genetics are beyond your control, but you do have control in a number of ways to make girls like you:
Self-confidence is like a magnet for women.
Self-confidence is a powerful tool. If you exude self-confidence, you've practically got a woman on your arm. What is self-confidence? How do I know if I have it? How do I get it if I don't feel like I have it? Be in, or get in,the habit of doing things that you are afraid to do. And knowing you're right. That's about it.
If you feel you're lacking in that area, start with little things and work your way up. You face challenges. Get over them. Subdue them. Deal with them and your self-confidence will grow.
Pick up some skills to pick up some girls.
"Girls want boyfriends with skills!" You've heard it before, you'll hear it again. (Drinking contests, lighting farts, or winning a hot-dog eating championship, all may require a sort of skill, but not the kind that will win a lady's heart.) Start developing some skills that will surprise or attract women in a positive way.
You can really shine with if you can cook a great meal. Or if you know how to dance. Do you have an interesting hobby? Or perhaps there's one you'd like to pick up. Paint, play the guitar. There are so many regular old guys out there. Stand out in the crowd. Develop some life skills that may be simple, but will make a difference.
Flirting is fun and girls love it.
Flirting, and doing it well, is a great way to get girls to like you. Flirt as often as you can to keep yourself sharp.
Flirting well is the key. Flirting is a delicate art form.
There are two main rules about flirting: It can't be overly serious and it must make the girl feel good about herself.
Are you a caveman? You are if you holler at a girl and tell her she has a nice rear. Don't ever do this. Such action is not flirting, it fails twice: 1) without knowing her, she's not going to take it seriously, 2) it in no way makes her feel good about herself, she feels like a "thing"; and guys who do this are no good at flirting at all, they're jerks.
With these three hints to guide you, you'll get girls to like you no matter where you may find yourself. Within the boundaries of these guidelines, your personality will ooze forth and you'll stand out in the crowd. Just be happy, be fun-loving, be self-confident, know how to do a few neat things, and know how to flirt - the ladies will follow.
