2 ways to catch your spouse cheating on you

Copyright (c) 2009 Ed Opperman

Cheaters are largely the same today as they were thirty years ago, though the ways to catch a spouse engaged in extramarital infidelity have changed with the times. While cheaters will still show the signs of a cheating spouse, there are ways, using old and new technologies, to catch your uncommitted partner.

Here are two ways to catch your spouse cheating on you:

Catch them in a lie

When your significant other is cheating on you, there is a good chance that they are juggling a large number of truths, half-truths, and lies so that they can hide their extramarital infidelity from you, and hide the fact they are married from the other person that they are seeing. For this reason, it can be somewhat easy to catch your spouse in a lie if they are cheating on you.

In reality, catching your spouse in a lie can be as simple as playing the "forgetful spouse". Now, for this to work without raising suspicion -- you should be naturally interested in what your spouse does on a daily basis.

For instance, if your spouse has told you that he or she is going out for the day to run errands, or some other ambiguous activity -- be sure to ask them about what they're doing before they actually head for the door. Any questions that you ask, especially if they are out of the blue or unexpected, can throw a cheating spouse off balance enough for you to detect them trying to come up with an answer to the question.

If your spouse hesitates, this alone could be indicative of them and least trying to hide something from you, and if they display other signs of cheating -- it could be the straw that breaks the camel's back, so to speak.

Catch them online

While the internet has given us a great number of benefits and conveniences, it is has also been a major obstacle for marriages comprised of a spouse with a low-level of commitment to the marriage. Nowadays, "married but dating" websites abound -- not only that, there are chat rooms, so-called "escort" forums, and just an overall abundant number of opportunities for a spouse who entertains extramarital infidelity. Yes, the internet can be a problem in certain marriages and for certain people -- but in all actuality, catching a cheater who uses the internet to engage in their illicit affairs can actually be quite simple.

Online fidelity investigation services specialize in tracking cheaters online. Now, even if you are an internet "guru", so to speak -- the in-depth research that an investigative service produces far outweighs any information that you could glean through your own research. If your spouse is using an online dating website to pursue their extramarital infidelity, there's a good chance that these types of services will not only be able to identify a cheating spouse -- but catch them in the act as well.

Extramarital infidelity is a major problem these days, and it is a problem that has destroyed marriages time and time again. While unfortunate, the best thing that you can do for yourself, so that you can figure out what you need to do in the end, is to, first of all -- catch your partner cheating on you.