Broken Marriage: Is It Worth Saving?

Broken marriage, to save or not to save? That is often the question most people ask nowadays whose marriage is on the rocks. Should you really try to save or not save your marriage? It really depends on one's situation. A broken marriage is not something that one wishes for but sometimes it is better that way for the good of everybody.

Every marriage has its flaws, no marriage is perfect but those imperfections are not reason enough to split unless of course the main factor that holds a marriage together is gone. What are those factors that keep the marriage intact? Love, respect, honor, and responsibility: once these factors are gone in a marriage then indeed it is better to be free of each other than stay together.

There are a lot of couples who stay together for the wrong reasons which makes them so miserable. Their number one reason of staying together is because of the children, another is because of their parents, what others might say and what their church friends would say, it is certainly the wrong reason to stay together. You will end up more miserable and frustrated. How can you possibly live with someone whom you don't love anymore but despise and hate? What others think doesn't matter, it is your life and you better live it the way you think is right.

However, if both of you are sincere with your marriage but is just undergoing difficulty then make your marriage to work. It is indeed worth to save it all for the right reasons. Remember that you have committed yourself to one another and has promised to be faithful to the marriage vow that you have. It is just normal for a marriage to undergo problems and it is up to you how you handle such problem.

So can a broken marriage be saved? If the couple want to then the obvious answer is "yes". Nothing can be achieved if it is only one who wants to patch things up. You are definitely wasting your time if it is only you who want to save your marriage.

Both parties must be opened to talk honestly to one another. Both parties must want the marriage to work the second time around for the right reasons and that is because you still love, respect, honor and have the sense of responsibility for each other.

Trust is something that you have to work out and be restored because without it marriage can never survive. Ability to listen to one another and try to be positive in everything you do. That way it will ease the air of negativity around you and your spouse would take the lead. This in a way will release some of the tensions and will help both of you to think right and get calm over your situation.

The point here is that, a marriage can only work for two people who are really committed to make their marriage work no matter what happens. Couples who experienced so many challenges throughout their marriage life and were able to overcome those challenges, had their marriage much stronger than it ever was. If both of you really feel like you were meant to be together, then the question "broken marriage, to save or not to save?" wouldn't apply to you.

So take a hold of yourself, are you one of those couples who got married and stay married for the wrong reasons? If not then you don't have to worry and don't have to be afraid for you'll never have to face situations and answering questions like broken marriage, to save or not to save? For sure you will both be able to resolve things before you even come to a conclusion of splitting up.