Dentist: Your Child’s First Visit

Taking your child to the dentist for the first time does not have to be a stressful event. While there will likely be a little bit of trepidation on your kid’s part, as with any new experience, proper preparation for the dental checkup can cut down on problems and alleviate some of this natural anxiety.

The first trick to making the first dental appointment simple is taking your kid at the right age. Both the American Dental Association and the American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry recommend that first visit to occur by either the first birthday or the time your kid gets his or her first tooth, whichever comes first. If your child has the first dental checkup at an early age, fear-based responses are less likely to become a habit.

However, some dental professionals recommend waiting until the child is three and allowing the pediatrician to screen for infant tooth problems, like baby bottle tooth decay.

Choose a dentist that you feel comfortable with. If you have a good dentist that you already use, ask whether or not you can bring him. If you feel comfortable he is more likely to feel comfortable. Some parents prefer to work with pediatric dental professionals, as they are more adept at dealing with children.

If you choose to wait for the preschool years for that first dental appointment, expect more anxiety on your children’s behalf. You can help by preparing your ward with picture books or movies that explain exactly what the dentist does. Explain in age appropriate words what will happen, but avoid scary words like “jab” or “scrape,” even if they are truthful. If you are asked if something will hurt, reassure them that it most likely won’t hurt. At the first visit, little work will actually be done in the mouth.

On the first visit, the doctor will look at teeth and gums, examining them for any signs of decay or cavities. Sometimes the teeth will be professionally cleaned, but this is usually reserved for a future date when your boy or girl is more comfortable with the dental checkup routine. The doctor will also ask questions about the diet, whether or not a pacifier is used, and whether or not your home’s water has fluoride. According to your answers, the doctor will give advice about future dental care.

Most dentists that regularly see children have learned how to interact with them and calm their fears. They have games and prizes that make the visit more fun. As long as you, as the parent, stay calm, your child should stay calm as well. If a meltdown begins, do not force the issue. Reschedule the visit at another time, if possible, to avoid turning the appointment into an emotional memory for your child. Over time these appointments will become second nature, and by making the first one a success, you will prepare the way for healthy dental hygiene.