Tulsa Divorce Lawyers - An Overview Of The Steps Of The Divorce Process

Divorce is confusing. Because divorce is confusing, divorce lawyers are required to attend at least seven years of college, earn a law degree, and pass the bar exam - it is a very demanding process. Once a divorce lawyer has completed the stringent process, they have earned the label 'professional'. That being said, it is recommended that you leave the court room representation to the professionals and not make the mistake of trying to represent yourself instead.

Regardless of whether you decide to heed our advice and hire legal counsel or whether you decide to go against our advice and DO decide to represent yourself, there is a lot of valuable information posted in this hub, that if read thoroughly and if read to be learned, will benefit you a great deal during your divorce.

The divorce process is confusing and in order to help 'dummy it down' so that it can be more easily understand, we have divided divorce into two parts: the beginning process and the litigation process:

During the beginning process, you will undoubtedly experience a lot of anxiety about the forseeable future. The divorce process will (during the beginning) seem overwhelming. These feelings of being overwhelmed and feelings of anxiety are without a doubt caused by divorce being confusing.

During the litigation process, you will begin to regain your footing. During the litigation process you will begin to experience more stabilty in your life and you also see an increase in your confidence level as the litigation process moves forward.

Lastly, keep in mind during both phases of the process that divorce, although it is a very serious, life altering decision, is just a phase in your life. No matter how anxious, confused, or frustrated you may become during the divorce process, you can have peace of mind knowing that this phase of your life is just temporary and it will be over with sometime in the near future.