Is what you perceive really the truth? We have been trained to see things a certain way and many times we claim that to be absolute. To be “free,” we must learn to see with new eyes—to go beyond one’s point of view to experience the absolute consciousness that really is!
Let’s take a moment to put this into practical terms. Imagine you’ve just finished grocery shopping and as you’re pulling out of your parking spot. The person in the car behind you quickly pulls out at the exact same time and hits your car. You jump out of your car ready to scream at that person for driving like an idiot, smashing your car, being reckless and blind as a bat. However, when the person gets out of their car they are crying and deeply upset. The person relays to you that they just received a call that their mother had passed away and they were stricken by grief. They didn’t see that there was someone pulling out behind them because of all the tears in their eyes. In that moment, all your anger drains away, and you offer to assist them in any way you can.
So what just happened here? In our imaginary story, your eyes and ears took in light and your brain translated that into a picture or virtual reality where your car intersected with another car. Your mind told you that this situation was bad and further judged the other person to be wrong and irresponsible. The result of this interpretation was anger and resentment. In that moment, you were trapped by the limitations of your machine - and fell for the conclusions your mind came to in this situation. You lost your peace because you believed what your mind was telling you - you thought it was truth and you trusted it. As a result, you lost your personal freedom and were at the mercy of your fear-based emotions.
In Buddhism, the Diamond Sutra says, “Where there is perception, there is deception.” As students of spirituality, we must use our awareness to transcend the way we’ve been trained to perceive, and to learn to see without the machine’s constraints and preconceptions. This is true freedom, having the ability to interact within this reality without being bound to our own points of view, opinions and prejudices.
This month, I challenge you to ask yourself, “Is this truth,” whenever you are in a situation where you are tempted to believe yourself. See what happens!
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