Even though you're not connected physically you're still connected energetically.
It's all about energy.
And how you play with that energy.
I'm not talking about finding a psychic who does a spell to make your ex see the truth in how much he or she loves you.
I figure those spells only end up a waste of money because that's about control and your desperation. How can you force someone love you?
So right now all you are concerned about is how you feel and what you want. But what about what your ex wants?
They broke up with you because in that moment they felt they weren't in love with you anymore.
The magic had gone. They thought it was time to move on. The pain of being together was greater they thought than the pain of breaking up.
But until you work out a strategy to show your ex that they miss you and want to be with you again, it ain't happening.
Energetically you will still be connected. You can't spend time romantically involved with anyone and not have energetic cords still attached. Sometimes we are attached to people years and years later without even realising it.
So now you have to dance with that energy. It's not just about you and what you want, you need to find a way to change your ex's perspective, but not by telling your ex to their face.
So the trick is to create a vacuum. Create distance.
Don't call, don't text, don't write lengthy emails explaining how you feel.
Your ex doesn't want to know about all your pain. That's only going to drag it out for them and confirm to them it's definitely time to move on.
They are not the person you want to try and confide in right now.
It's time to use spiritual principals and work out a strategy on how to insert yourself back into your ex's life in a way where they will want to start seeing you again. They will realise how much they miss you.
But they can't miss you if you keep on contacting them.
So suck it up and stay away. Remember you are still energetically attached, even though you're not physically attached.
If your ex is worth the effort, you will only know by setting a plan of action and following it through.
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