How to Make Your Ex Boyfriend Want You Back!

So you've been through a break up. How have you handled it so far?

Have you begged and pleaded with him?

Have you sent him a barrage of email and texts?

Have you checked his Facebook page and all his friends on a daily basis?

Have you cried until you can't cry anymore, but the thoughts of him are obsessively on your mind?

And still he won't notice you.

The thing is, whatever tactic you've tried so far is only going to play on his guilt. He will feel bad that you feel bad. And that's only going to push him away further. Guilt for him is like a repellent, he won't want to come anywhere near you so he doesn't have to feel it.

But you don't want him back because he feels guilty or sorry for you. And just because you get to be right, he did make you feel all those things, he has hurt you, it doesn't mean that it's the fast track to eventually being happy.

So here's another approach cause what you've been doing hasn't been working up until now. That's of course if he's worth having back. You will eventually find out anyway.

This may sound counter-intuitive but you need to move on without him. Get out there and have some fun, go out with your friends, be the person you were when he first met you. Besides living well is the best revenge.

He will feel you energetically pull away and there will be a vacuum effect. A space where you once were.

And if he does contact you, play it cool, tell him it was great to hear from him but you will call him next week when you have some time. That will certainly spark his interest.

In the meantime you're probably enjoying yourself so much it will feel like an option whether you want him back now or not.