Several years ago I learned that by getting extremely close to the threshold of ejaculatory inevitability, then relaxing my sex organ muscles and halting all stimulation, then getting "close" again repeatedly, I would achieve a continuous plateau stage with frequent emissions orgasms without ejaculating.
The resultant intensity of pleasure is possibly one half that felt in a full ejaculatory orgasm but potentially unending. Furthermore, the associated sexual organs exercise, and the learned ability to better control those organs mentally has greatly increased the scope and depth of my sexual pleasure. It is my opinion that I have learned to enhance and maintain indefinitely the physical events and associated pleasure of an absolutely imminent ejaculatory orgasm. Feelings of pleasure are augmented by intense loin vasocongestion and readiness, and sexual organ fluid fullness and pressure. The following discussion attempts to teach men how to achieve this continuous orgasm, and to explain the physiological basis of this phenomenon. My discovery of the continuous orgasm was accidental, but recounting the event may help others separate their emissions orgasm and ejaculatory experiences. The first time I experienced the potential of this technique I was masturbating while stoned on pot. Stimulation to my penis felt somewhat dulled. I got close to cumming but sensed that my orgasm was going to be weak, so I stopped all stimulation, knowing that I could build up to a better orgasm. When I was able to resume penile stimulation I noticed the pleasure of touching my penis was greater...so I came close to cumming again and again...and it felt better and better. Possibly five "close calls" later, my prostate had swollen and my seminal vesicles hardened and discharged but no semen flowed into my urethra. Pot seems to broaden the threshold between my orgasm emissions phase and the ejaculatory reflex response. Orgasm pleasure emanated from my testes, which were swollen and drawn under the tissue aside from my penis. Possibly thirty minutes into this routine my loin muscles began to ache, so I proceeded to the most intensely pleasurable orgasm and high quantity ejaculation I had ever had. Long afterward my sexual organs continued to radiate an enjoyable ache. I had given these muscles hearty exercising! I eagerly anticipated my next masturbation session, with delay dictated by my need to reload with semen.
I no longer use, nor do I advocate the use of pot because of its damaging effect on the lungs. A marijuana brownie could do the trick, or possibly another serotonin reuptake inhibitor (Prozac?) would produce the same effect. Anyway, pot use helped me control and broaden the threshold of ejaculatory inevitability, thus facilitating the learning of the continuous orgasm. Pot use also has a strong aphrodisiac effect when I entertained myself in this pre-ejaculation orgasm stage. Feelings of pleasure (sex munchies) are enhanced. For several months, without pot, I rarely achieved intense orgasm feelings without eliciting a few spasmodic pumping throbs and ejaculating small amounts of seminal fluid. With practice though, the use of pot is not necessary to enjoy orgasms without ejaculation. Practice results in discoveries of higher degrees of sexual pleasure and sensations, so it is easy to exercise!
At this point, I would like to discuss the physiology of the male ejaculatory orgasm. Reference books describe the event in stages involving sexual organ vasocongestion, rising to the plateau stage, then the orgasm which consists of internal sexual organ emissions and the ejaculation reflex response. Events beyond the plateau phase can be broken into many additional stages. My first orgasm pleasure sensations come from my testes, which draw up into my body. When men first since the arrival of an orgasm, those feelings emanate from the epididymis and the spermatic cords which contract and spasm to move sperm up the ductus (vas) and defers into the ampullary gland or ampulla. The ampulla filling with sperm accentuates sexual stimulation pleasure. Continued penile stimulation soon triggers hardening of the seminal vesicles which also discharge fluid. The sperm and seminal fluid in the ampulla then flow into the ejaculatory ducts. Sufficient pressure quickly builds in the ejaculatory ducts to trigger a hardening of the prostate, which discharges directly into the urethra. Ejaculation is inevitable once the prostate hardens. Finally, the valves at the ends of the ejaculatory ducts open, and the urethral bulb is quickly filled, triggering the ejaculation reflex. Semen discharged from the penis comes in a distinct sequence of partially mixed emissions:
Note that there are valves at the ends of the ejaculatory ducts and that fluid pressure triggers the ejaculation reflex. I evidently orgasm and discharge sperm, ampullary gland, and seminal vesicle fluid into the ejaculatory ducts without triggering ejaculation or the opening of those valves. I have trained myself to lock the ejaculatory duct valves closed during these emissions. The key is WHEN YOU GET VERY CLOSE TO EJACULATORY INEVITABILITY COMPLETELY RELAX ALL SEXUAL ORGAN MUSCLES, AND CEASE STIMULATION TO THE PENIS. The best way to portray this relaxation is to visualize the feeling you create trying to initiate urination. Urinary tract muscle relaxation locks the ejaculatory ducts' valves closed, even as the seminal vesicles proceed to harden and discharge. Ampullary gland fluid, sperm, and seminal fluid pressure build behind the duct valves. Stopping stimulation to the penis and relaxation halts the emissions pressure-driven progression to the hardening of the prostate and the ejaculatory reflex. Sexual organ muscle contractions and seminal fluid movement and pressure produce the feelings of orgasm and give rise to greatly heightened penis stimulation pleasure. Getting "close" to the point of seminal vesicle hardening and emissions orgasm at least ten times, involving roughly fifteen minutes of pre-ejaculatory pleasure results in the state of continuous orgasm.
With experience and exercise, I have raised the pressure (and pleasure) level required to trigger the ejaculation reflex response. I sense exactly how much more pressure can build before crossing the threshold to ejaculatory inevitability. My emissions orgasms are stronger and ultimately continuous without triggering ejaculation. My seminal vesicles harden right after I have nearly cum; hence they are almost constantly hard and discharging. My prostate swells without hardening, currently to about just half as large as during a full ejaculatory orgasm. Emissions increase the amount of fluid held in the ampulla and ejaculatory ducts, with an associated increase in pleasure and passion of sexual readiness.
The presence of sperm, ampullary gland, and seminal fluid in my ejaculatory ducts is evidenced by sensations I can produce after nearly cumming. Shortly after ceasing stimulation I can contract my bulbospongiosus muscle and thereby press on my prostate and feel the fluids being pushed back up into the ampulla and seminal vesicles. This feeling of fluid movement and fullness is very pleasurable. I can stop masturbating, and hours (days) later still feel the semen in my loins eager for release. My testes also feel full and are slightly sensitive to jostling.
Notice my descriptions of the physical changes to internal sexual organs that occur during an orgasm and ejaculation. By placing a middle finger into your rectum the hardening of the seminal vesicles, ampullary gland, and prostate can be palpitated digitally. Softly massaging the prostate and ampulla when they are gorged from the orgasmic filling is pleasurable. The ampullary gland is felt when hard as the triangular organ, point facing downward, that lies just above the prostate. Five additional observations:
Learn to maintain indefinitely the physiological events and associated pleasure of the emissions phase of an absolutely imminent ejaculatory orgasm! Practice at least half an hour, once a day, for probably two months and you will likely gain the ability to enjoy an endless orgasm! Put on your favorite porno and follow this step-by-step practice guide:
When you begin to feel an orgasm approach and cease all penile stimulation. Let your level of excitement drop slightly, then approach another orgasm. Repeat this "stop and go" approach to an orgasm at least ten times. Notice that stimulation to your penis feels better and better. On the tenth orgasm, approach bears down hard with your bulbospongiosus (piss stopper) muscle but slow down your stroking as you reach the point of no return. The reduced stimulation to the penis permits the pleasure of sexual organ emissions and drives you to the full ejaculatory orgasm. Notice the increased volume and intensity of your orgasm.
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Practice the Stop and Go technique. When you are ready to orgasm lube up your middle finger and stick it up your butt! Feel around your prostate (walnut-sized organ one to two inches past your anus) then put your finger all the way in, past the prostate. With your finger probing above the prostate proceed to an ejaculatory orgasm.
GOALS:
Practice Stop and Go approaches to an orgasm, but try to get a little closer to the point of no return. When you get real close, stop stroking your penis and completely relax all sex muscles. Concentrate especially on relaxing your bulbospongiosus (piss stopper) muscle, by creating the feeling you produce when trying to start to take a piss. Let your level of excitement drop, but less so, before resuming the approach to another orgasm. Relax completely each time you are near an orgasm and stop sexual stimulation. Notice that relaxation helps to extinguish the feelings associated with an emissions orgasm.
GOALS:
Build up your level of sexual excitement first with at least five stop and go sessions, then try to get REAL CLOSE to an orgasm and RELAX all sex organ muscles. Get so close that you would have triggered an ejaculatory orgasm if you had not become fully relaxed. Your mission is continue to feel the orgasms approach for a few seconds even though you are not stimulating your penis. The lure to stroke yourself is very strong at this point but resist! With practice, you will briefly enter the sex organs' emissions phase without ejaculating. Relaxing will suppress your ejaculatory reflex response and help keep semen retained behind the ejaculatory ducts valves. Semen pressure will build in the ampullary gland. A soft finger massage of the prostate and ampullary gland, once they are gorged from emissions, is pleasurable.
GOALS:
Build up sexual tension with several close "stop and go's", then proceed to approach the threshold of the ejaculatory reflex. Be careful to cease stimulation and relax fully just as you begin to enter the emissions phase of your orgasm. Sometimes at this point, your seminal vesicles will harden. Let your excitement wane, then come close to the point of no return again. Practice reaching the ejaculatory reflex threshold so that you harden your seminal vesicles at least five times. Semen will accumulate each time the seminal vesicles harden. Now contract your bulbospongiosus (piss stopper) muscle and feel semen push back up into the ampullary gland...FEELS GOOD! Notice the increased quantity of semen ejaculated when you finally cum.
GOALS:
Gorge your internal sex organs with semen, reaching seminal vesicle hardening at least five times then stop...take out the trash or something. Be careful to protect your tender balls. Let your level of excitement drop completely, then resume the seminal vesicle hardening. Be very careful to build up your excitement slowly with a few stop and go's before attempting a seminal vesicle hardening. Proceeding too fast can cause uncomfortable leakage of semen.
GOALS:
Build up to five seminal vesicle hardenings, relax and fill your ejaculatory ducts, then contract your piss stopper muscle and push the semen up into your ampullary gland. Get as close to your ejaculatory orgasm as you can without crossing the reflex response threshold. Now practice close-relax-harden- contract, and again close-relax-harden-contract repeatedly, in rapid succession. Ultimately, you will enter a state of nearly continuous orgasm emission phases. Your swollen testes and throbbing spermatic cords will orgasm. Orgasm emission pleasures from your ampullary gland are amplified by the accumulating fluid, especially fluid pressure in your ejaculatory ducts. The rapid succession of emissions orgasms becomes a continuous orgasm without ejaculation.
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