Rough sex is extremely popular but largely underground sexual fantasy. That of course doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen much, it just means people are afraid to talk about it. Rough sex is largely about mind games, dominance, and control - not just the physical.
Rough sex is extremely popular but largely underground sexual fantasy. That of course doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen much, it just means people are afraid to talk about it.
And like with most things that are driven underground (prostitution being a great example), it’s hard to find good, safe tips and information… so you’re left to experimentation.
Rough sex is largely about mind games, dominance, and control - not just the physicalWhile many people think of rough sex as having mainly to do with physical aggression, when you truly get into it you’ll realize the most important aspect is generally the mental one. The mind games, the dominant and submissive relationship that quickly develops the total trust and absolute control.
Is make up sex just an excuse to have rough sex?
As amazing as it sounds, some couples actually have arguments and fights just so they have a socially acceptable excuse for what’s commonly known as make up sex (read: rough, wild, and passionate sex).
Here’s a question from a couple in Wyoming hoping to spice up their sex lives by experimenting with rough sex.
Dear Dan and Jennifer,
My partner and I have started to get into rough sex, but as far as we have gone with it, it’s just him pulling my hair and spanking me. I have tried to find other stuff online that we could add in, but really can’t find much. Any suggestions?
– Ellie, Wyoming
Watch this short video for our thoughts on this very interesting question…
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