Tips to spice up your sex life

Enjoying a healthy and exciting sex life can pose a few challenges because of our hectic modern lifestyles. Our professional and personal commitments can leave us feeling physically and emotionally drained and lacking in motivation to enjoy a fulsome sex life. And the key to any healthy relationship is to have a very active and pleasurable sex life at all times.

Having sizzling sex is not about grinding away for hours only it is about trying something new and innovative to spruce up your levels of passion as a couple. Whether you become a shagaholic and pleasure each other orally or introduce the Kamasutra in your bedroom, it is all about novelty in lovemaking.

A few ways to spice up your lovemaking and have a rocking time in bed could include the following:

Introduce a blindfold: The most important sex organ is the human mind. It all begins in the brain which processes the information our senses relay to it. One way to stimulate our sensory awareness is for a partner to wear a blindfold that raises sensory awareness. It builds up the anticipation for the next sensual move and makes sex more thrilling and fun. From stimulating her with a feather to going down and pleasuring her with vagina with cunnilingus, having her blindfolded while you pleasure with leave her in sexual nirvana.     

Try role playing: One of the most exciting ways to make your sex life more pleasurable is to introduce role play into the bedroom. You could don the mantle of someone she fantasises about while she could play the part of someone who arouses you immensely even a porn star. Talk to each other about both of yours deepest hidden fantasies and explore your sexual fantasies through role play. It will lead to more pleasurable and fulfilling sexual encounters.

Give one another a sensual body massage:  The sense of touch is one of the sexiest ways to arouse your partner. Certain body areas like the nape of the neck, the stomach and the erogenous zones of our genitals are very sensitive. So make the most of these areas and give each other a tender sexual massage. From massaging her buttocks to sliding down to her clitoris tenderly, to exploring and applying gentle pressure on her vaginal canal all of it can lead to some of the best orgasms. A sensual massage is one of the best acts of foreplay that can lead to sizzling sex for the both of you. 

Introduce sex aids and accessories: Sex can become monotonous over a lengthy period of time so you need to be innovative. From vibrators to anal beads there are a whole range of sex aids and accessories to pleasure your sexual encounters. Watching a woman climax with a vibrator is in itself a major turn on and using any sex aid with due care is one of the best ways to bring back the sizzle in your sex lives.  

Share your fantasies: Communication and in particular honest communication with each other is the best way to enjoy a fulfilling sex life as a couple. Share your deep and darkest fantasies with each other, while ensuring that you outlive them in a mutually comfortable way. Whether it is watching her strip or sharing fetishes, first build up the sexual anticipation by discussing it together fully clothed with a glass of wine. Talking and then gradually enacting it can lead to a very satisfying sexual union.   

Use sexually stimulating language: One of the best ways to arouse each other is to talk dirty as it stimulates our brains, which in turn arouses our sensory responses. Learn to better understand what sexual terminology or words stimulate each other, and use them in your build up to a passionate session of unbridled sex. When you combine raw passion with dirty talk it can lead to explosive sex for the both of you.