5 Reasons You Should Invest in a Vibrator

Vibrators may be seen as a tool for the sex crazed or the relationship desperate, but contrary to what you might think, a vibrator is an investment every woman (or man) needs to make.

Don’t worry, your mom’s not reading, you’re allowed to think about it.

It’s not just about self-pleasure for the sake of self-pleasure; this handy tool will improve your relationships, your sex life, and your process for choosing who you do and don’t involve in your life. Not to mention boost your immune system, keep you from a bad breakup, and make you better in bed.

Don’t believe me? Here are 5 reasons that will convince you.

1. They Make Sure You Get Into a Relationship for the Right Reasons

If you get into or stay with a relationship just because of the sex, you’re setting yourself up for failure.

A good relationship is about how much you enjoy each other’s company, how well you understand each other, and how much fun you have – even when the pants stay on. But let’s face it; you have needs. After a few weeks or months of a dry spell, you can be tempted to lower your standards or get with someone that’s bad news just because you want to sate your urges, and this is dangerous.

A vibrator doesn’t pose this problem, so you can be more coherent and aware in choosing your partners. You don’t have to prowl the singles sites or gay chat rooms when you’re feeling lonely, and if you’re not really comfortable with the relationship but still want sex, don’t worry – you have options.

1. They Help You Learn What You Want – Without the Drama

Learning what turns you on and satisfies you takes practice and exploration. Finding out with a partner can be awkward, overly dramatic, and at times frustrating. How can you tell them what you want if you don’t know? What if you’re missing out, just because they don’t know what to give you or how to give it to you? How can you explore your freaky side if you’re afraid of scaring someone off? A vibrator gives you the privacy and the flexibility to explore your own sexuality, so future sexual encounters are more pleasurable and, more importantly, you’re more confident and talented in bed. Avoid the embarrassing memories; vibrators don’t tell tales. 

1. They Prevent Dissatisfaction in a Relationship

Your soul mate or the love of your life could be perfect for you in every way, but not that spectacular when it comes to hitting the sheets. And that’s okay, but you still have needs. Trying and failing to get what you want out of sex from your partner can leave you unfulfilled and unsatisfied, which will hurt the relationship. The options are to accept you’ll never have a good orgasm again, or to look elsewhere, right? A vibrator allows you to satisfy yourself – just how you like it – while keeping that relationship strong, doing away with hidden resentments or dissatisfaction.

1. They’re More Available, and Orgasms Are Healthy

Orgasms are about more than pleasure; they boost our immune system, help sleep, burn stress, and even burn calories. Having them regularly will make you healthier, happier, and frankly, a lot mellower. But your partner isn’t always available to help you with the situation; if they’re not in the mood, aren’t in town, have to work late, or enjoying some them-time, then you’re left to stew.

A vibrator, however, is available any time and every time. With certain models being travel size, even if you’re on a business trip or vacation with friends, you can keep yourself in top physical and mental health. This also means the sexual encounters you have with your partners are more meaningful, less about fulfilling a purpose and more about the connection.  

1. They Give You More Options

Keeping things spicy in the bedroom is harder the longer a relationship lasts. Your partner may not be interested in some of the things you are, you may be running out of ideas, or you may be interested in a few new techniques, but aren’t sure if you want to try them full time. Rather than accepting the typical vanilla or letting your sex life die down, vibrators give you options and control. You can test any range of new techniques on yourself or with your partner, with more controlled progression, different settings for different sensations, and even a variety of shapes. This means you can enjoy sexy times that are more diverse, safer, and more comfortable than your typical run of the mill.

Whether you have a high or low libido, are interested in a relationship or not, or think you know yourself well enough, investing in a vibrator is a decision that will improve most aspects of your lifestyle. Even if you throw it in a drawer and never look at it again, when you need it, you need it.