Women Too Have the Right to Have Sexual Fantasies

Men easily reveal their sexuality and sexual desires and this is accepted by society. When a man is with a woman who attracts him, his body language tells her of the sexual attraction he feels and neither finds anything offensive in this. In fact, women have been indoctrinated over the centuries to be flattered by such signals from men.

But society does not tolerate women being as open and frank about their sexuality. This is not surprising since women have always been treated as an inferior species. So, almost since the beginning of civilisation, men have been free to flow with the tide as far as their sexual feelings are concerned, while a woman who did the same thing was branded as a brazen slut and reviled.

But things have changed now and women are breaking free of the cages they have lived in all these millennia. They now feel free to have their own sexual fantasies and to use their wiles openly to bring men to their knees. Now, it is not only men who seek to satisfy an unrelenting sex drive. Women do so too!

In her fantasies, a woman concentrates on her erogenous zones and then sex with her becomes a wild and unforgettable experience for her man. Sex, for a woman, is as much in the brain as it is in the body and, if a man does not understand this, the woman becomes cold and unresponsive. When a woman initiates sex, she performs the act of intercourse as she wants it, and this is often a real eye-opener for a man, who may understand for the first time what real coupling is.

Sex can be really great for a man only when his woman is as keen to have sex as he is. When she is passive and "allows" sex, it is just a way for a man to get a physical release, but when she actively participates and gets as much pleasure as she gives, it is an unforgettable experience.

So a man should be sensitive to his woman's erotic fantasies. Since women like "thinking sex", they like to read about sex and are fond of erotic stories, romantic novels, etc. One advantage of this is that such reading helps them get over their inhibitions and they become emboldened to express and then act out what they have read about and then imagined.

Surprisingly, they often want their men to do a complete about-turn in the way they treat them. Perhaps this is because they have not been able to explore their sexuality till recently. They no longer like or are willing to put up with being controlled. Their attitude to men is often insulting and men now find them enigmatic.

Rachel Duff is a woman of substance. She is very clear about what she wants in a man. She is 5'6" tall and her man has to be taller than she is. Her present boyfriend is an inch taller than she is and that is fine by her.

Rachel loves her boyfriend very much but she refuses to be subservient or to allow him to dominate her in bed. Her man must make her feel like a woman. He must never abuse her or take her for granted. He must instead make her feel like a princess. He must never treat her as if she were his mother.

When it comes to sex, size does not matter for her, but he must get turned on and be able to satisfy her. She is quite stubborn about the fact that he must take control in bed. But this control must be as she wants it to be. For instance, she refuses to undress him, but he must undress her. The funda of all this is that he must treat her like a prize. And he has to unwrap his prize in a manner that stokes her desires and alerts all her senses.

Rachel wants her man to be gratified by making her sexual fantasies come to life. He must adore her breasts, lips and skin and be totally sexy as well. He must caress and massage her.

Her breasts are Rachel's most erogenous zone and so she demands that her man be a "breast man" who finds a woman's breasts very exciting. When they make love, she wants him to pay attention to her boobs, to touch and stroke and squeeze them.

Rachel believes that marriage is a pious bond. She wants the man she marries to be very sweet and to romance her whenever they go out.

Today's women are out to enjoy themselves and are confident that they have both the right and ability to insist on their men pleasing them. They are free birds and now want to make their sexual dreams come true.

Some women fantasise on having sex under the stars because they like the calmness and silence of Nature. Others like to perform erotic dances to turn their men on. They know that the hot sex that will follow will reward them! Men will also be surprised by the answers they get if they ask their women if they like being pushed around.

Maully Jefferson describes herself as an exceedingly sexual person. She says that she finds out who she really is while she is having sex with her man. She wants her man to be manly, but also wants him to be romantic enough to take her in his arms - but in a manly manner. She enjoys watching blue movies with her man so that they both get turned on and have orgasms "internally". Sometimes, these movies turn her on so much that she is aggressive and rough when she later makes love with her man. Maully also enjoys reading books on sex.

Such desires on the part of women, such attempts to satisfy their sexual needs, have a strong psychological component. Today, there is no shortage of women who are living their sexual fantasies in order to have satisfying sex.

HAVE A PERFECT TIME

For Shar Jeffery, sex is having a perfect time with her man. She wants to see hot desire for her on his face and wants to do all sorts of unthinkable things with him. He has to arouse each of her five senses. She moves around in bed expecting him to respond by moving to the erogenous areas she is directing him to. She expects him to bring her to an orgasm.

Women should be open about their fantasies. Only then can they hope to be fully satisfied. They should remember that they can dominate sex and thus achieve greater satisfaction.