How To Make Your Ex Boyfriend Take You Back

You're probably thinking what's wrong with you. You've dedicated a huge part of your time and affection and yet it seems it's never enough. If you're thinking of pulling all the stops and using all the tricks to make your ex boyfriend take you back again.

I'm sure you've already gathered quite a few tips and tricks. Yes, they do work. You can use them at your own risk. Use them if ONLY you want a reconciliation that is short-lived.

You have to get hold of your emotions for the meantime and start thinking. Do you want to get your boyfriend back only to lose him again? That is worse than breaking up in the first place.

In the next few minutes you will forget about what the relationship experts say. Love is vague and immeasurable. There is no definite rule that we all can follow. And yet we all set ourselves up for the next heartache. But don't worry, I'll let you in on a little known secret.

The Little Known Secret Of How To Make Your Ex Boyfriend Take You Back

1. Reclaim Your Self-Respect. You cannot fix something when you feel broken. Give yourself time to heal. Weather the storm that is inside your mind and your heart. This is your invaluable tool when you start to face obstacles between you and your boyfriend.

2. What Made Your Boyfriend Break Up With You? Have you already thought about it? Really thought about it? You have to be honest in answering this question. What issues lead to this outcome? Was it your fault? Can you do something about it? Resolve your issues. Was it both your fault? Or was it his alone?

If there is a third-party involved and your boyfriend is already dating someone else, don't panic. There is a way around this. Let him be, at least for now, while you're healing. Don't get in his way. He will only push you farther and make getting him back harder.

Let him learn about what TRUE love really is and where he can really find it. Eventually, he will start comparing you and the other girl. If you keep on nagging him and pining him about all the sacrifices that you have done for him, he will not see you as the winner.

3. Never accept to be his friend. Never give him the notion that you will always be there for him when things don't work between them. You are not a "back up". If you allow him do think that you are, it will take him longer to realize how important you are in his life. It is definitely not the way to get a boyfriend back.