How to Show Your Ex Boyfriend That You Don't Need Him! Helpful Advice If You Want Him Back

You can't get over your ex boyfriend. You've tried, but it's all been to no avail. The first thoughts you have when you wake up in the morning are of him. The last thoughts you have before you drift off to sleep are of him. Each and every moment of the day you find yourself wishing you could talk to him or feel his arms around you. Sadly, you're a woman in a very difficult position facing an uphill climb.

You've got to get the man back. You know this but knowing it and making it happen are two very different things. You probably already know that the way to recapture a man's heart isn't by telling him how much you miss and desire him. You need to make him feel as though you don't desire him anymore. You want to show your ex boyfriend that you don't need him if you want him to come running back to you. It's all about pushing certain, very specific, psychological triggers within him that will make him crave to be with you again.

If you want to show your ex boyfriend that you don't need him, stop trying to talk to him! This seems so obvious because it really is. One common mistake that women make in the days and weeks following their break up is they chase after their ex trying to get him to talk about his feelings or what he needs from the relationship. Each and every time you reach out to the man you are negatively impacting your chances of getting him to come back to you. If you want him to really start to feel that he needs and wants you back in his life, you have to work on staying away from him. This may seem overwhelming at first but if it does, view it as a day-to-day endeavor. Just do what you can today to avoid him and then focus on the same thing tomorrow. Before you know it a week or two has passed without contact.

You can also show your ex boyfriend that you're strong and capable on your own if you continue to joyfully live your life. It's incredibly easy to fall into an emotional pit during a break up. You're going to feel inclined to hide away at home nursing your broken heart by eating sugar laden foods and watching romantic movies. Doing this ensures your ex gets all the power. He'll sense that you're a broken woman who can't function without him. To him that means he can take his time deciding on whether he wants you back because you're obviously going to wallow away in your own sorrow.

You can change that perception very easily by brushing yourself off and getting back into your life. Make a point each day of doing something just for you. Also, spend more time out of the house with your friends and family. If you don't stop living your life and you're always smiling and laughing, that's going to have an impact on your ex. He'll soon see that you can live without him and you really don't need him at all. Once a man feels that, his ego goes into overdrive and he'll do whatever it takes to make you feel reliant on him emotionally again. In other words, the man won't be able to calm down his desire to get you back once he senses that you no longer want or need him.