Resolving the

Disagreements in a relationship are common. Often times arguments will come down to a "he said - she said" type situation where one person will be saying one thing while the other will be determined to say another.

Have you ever been in a situation where you were positive that someone said something but no matter how much you tried to convince them, they just kept denying it. Or even the other way around where someone was trying to tell you that you had said or done something that you were positive you hadn't?

This happens a lot in relationships and can cause what could be a very simple disagreement to get out of hand and turn into world war 3. The two will end up fighting for hours or even days over some minor detail that in the big scope of things doesn't matter anyway.

The best way to get past this is to just agree to disagree. In fact it really the only way. You are never going to be able to convince the other person that you are right, even if you do convince them there is still a very small chance that they will ever admit it. Choosing to agree to disagree though can help move you forward and get you past a small sticking point in an argument. This will enable to and your partner to focus on the "real" problem and help you to find a resolution much easier. Remember when you are in an argument with someone its not the small details that are important, whats important is getting to the root of the problem as fast as possible so that you can resolve your issue and get back to loving each other because really, isn't that what being in a relationship should be all about anyway?