The Memory of a Valentine

May 20
05:07

2024

Jane Roseen

Jane Roseen

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Discover the poignant tale of one woman's journey through joy and sorrow, and why Valentine's Day holds an indelible place in her heart. This story is a testament to love, loss, and the enduring power of memory.

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A Love Story for the Ages

My husband Matt and I met during our college years. Our love story began at a football party during my sophomore year and his junior year. We quickly became the "it" couple on campus,The Memory of a Valentine Articles seemingly immune to the frequent breakups and squabbles that plagued many of our friends. Matt proposed to me shortly after his graduation, and we tied the knot the day after my graduation the following May.

The Birth of Our Golden Child

Emily was our honeymoon baby, born on Valentine's Day itself. Our families teased us endlessly—not only were we the "perfect couple," but we also had a baby born on the most romantic day of the year. It felt like destiny.

Emily was our Golden Child. She radiated joy and had an infectious spirit. With her dark golden curls and her father's chocolate brown eyes rimmed with a faint golden hue, she was truly breathtaking. While we hoped for more children, it didn't happen as easily as it had with Emily. Nevertheless, we were content with our little family until a fateful day in May, just after Emily turned four.

The Tragic Accident

The day before our fifth wedding anniversary, Emily and I were running errands. I was in a hurry, trying to get everything done before our anniversary vacation. Emily sensed my stress and became restless. In an attempt to calm her, I reached into the back seat to turn up the music on her toy. I never saw the truck coming.

I woke up four days later in the hospital. The details of those days are still hazy, but I vividly remember the moment Matt told me that Emily didn't survive the crash. My last words to her were cross and impatient, asking her to be quiet for just five minutes.

Coping with Loss

I slowly recovered from my injuries, but life was never the same. Matt was incredibly supportive, but the loss of our Golden Child cast a long shadow over our lives. As Emily's birthday approached, I was unsure how I would cope. To make matters worse, Matt had to attend a conference in Zurich, Switzerland, for the ten days leading up to Valentine's Day. I had never felt so alone.

A Special Valentine's Gift

On Valentine's Day, Emily's birthday, Matt called from New York to confirm that I would pick him up from his connecting flight. He mentioned he had a special Valentine's gift for me. Despite my lack of enthusiasm, he insisted it would help.

Seeing Matt come off the plane lifted my spirits. After we got home, he handed me a small wrapped box. He explained that he hadn't planned on getting me anything for Valentine's Day due to our shared pain, but he saw something in Zurich that he knew he had to bring back.

I unwrapped the box to find a brand I didn't recognize—DeLafée. Inside were beautiful chocolates sprinkled with gold. I smiled and cried simultaneously—a box of chocolates from our Golden Child. Matt urged me to taste one, and the rich chocolate exploded on my tongue. I had never tasted anything like it.

Moving Forward

Each Valentine's Day gets a little easier. We now have a little boy, Ethan. Every year, Matt gets me a box of DeLafée chocolate pralines. These chocolates have become so well-known among my friends that we all look forward to our husbands' special purchases of DeLafée. But as much as my friends enjoy these gold-flaked exquisite chocolates, I know that mine are a special reminder of my Golden Child.

Interesting Facts About Valentine's Day

  • Valentine's Day Spending: In 2022, Americans spent approximately $23.9 billion on Valentine's Day, making it one of the most lucrative holidays of the year (source).
  • Chocolate Sales: Around 58 million pounds of chocolate are purchased during the week of Valentine's Day (source).
  • Unique Gifts: DeLafée's gold-infused chocolates are a luxurious and unique gift, symbolizing the preciousness of love and memory.

Conclusion

Valentine's Day is a complex tapestry of emotions for many, blending joy and sorrow, love and loss. For me, it will always be a day to remember my Golden Child, Emily, and the enduring love that binds our family together.

This article is a heartfelt narrative that delves into the emotional complexities of Valentine's Day, enriched with personal anecdotes and interesting statistics. It serves as a reminder that love, in all its forms, is a powerful force that shapes our lives.

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