Denying and/or avoiding your truth ensures you'll KEEP getting more of what you DON'T want. How can you comfortably acknowledge where you're at right NOW, so you can then get motivated to DO something about it? This article lays it out for you...so you start purposefully dealing with reality, instead of continuing to avoid it!
"Oh, uhh, this outfit I bought a few weeks ago feels very tight 'all of the sudden'; it's nothing --probably just some temporary bloating."
"Oh -- I'll just wear a little larger size for a while, in darker colors, and accessorize so it's as if no one will notice, and I'll look as I always have. Gee, ya know, even the mirror is deceiving me lately. Hey, it's alright, I'm still the way I've always been, and this weight increase is a temporary thing...yeah; it's just a temporary thing."
Well, well, well...let's see here. Let's have you choose one from the following "what I'm really doing" factors regarding the above person's state of mind:
A.) She really is just going through a temporary weight increase, that will, of course, miraculously reverse itself.
B.) She sees a change in her outer self, but because she still sees her inner self in a positive, sparkling way, the inner will "automatically" rectify the outer.
C.) She's denying she's gotten fat, and is using every possible justification/ rationalization in the book to avoid having to accept and deal with the now of her life.
Ahh...C.) you say. Hey -- you're right!
Look, you can either put on rose colored glasses and see only what you want to see. Or, you can choose to look through the eyes of truth and see truly what is.
Don't beat yourself up because you've slipped. No--acknowledge it, determine to do something about it, and then do it -- until you've accomplished the change and/or improvement you've set out to.
Remember, you're not an ostrich who can just stick your head in the sand and play make believe. You're a capable, creative, intelligent person who can literally strengthen her self respect and self esteem through being honest with yourself, and then taking targeted measures to either re-establish or recreate the context you want.
It's always your choice; you can either window dress, sugar coat or deny. Or, you can say "OK, here's my truth," and then learn how wonderful you are through acting to change or improve.
The former choice will ensure fear, ignorance and despair continue administering their self debasing, indeed, self constricting hold upon you. The latter choice will ensure you find parts of yourself you never before knew. Yes, parts which will serve to enrich and empower you immeasurably.
Remember: Once you acknowledge what IS...you can then begin freely moving ahead toward the what CAN be!
The Supreme Belief In VICTORY Mind-Set (Invincible Faith That You WILL Succeed!)
There is a clear and decisive mind-set that is the precursor to personal victory. Once you forge this inner framework, there IS no wavering, or "falling short of your mark". There is only action, determination, total conviction, and ultimate success. Are YOU ready to surge forward to the NEXT level of income, accomplishment, and personal gain in YOUR life? If so, heed my directives here to engineer the mind-set..that conclusively PREVAILS !
Insider Secrets To Substantial Good Luck (The Proven Approach To Making YOUR Self Lucky!)
You likely know someone - an associate, colleague, even a competitor - who, despite the economy, or any other trying condition, continues to do well, and enjoys decided success and profitability. Are they "blessed" more than you? Or, are they luckier than you? It's likely the latter! But WHY are they luckier than you? And, how can YOU start becoming luckier than you currently are? This article gives you 6 factors which directly show you how!
Living Invincibly Positive - Upholding Indomitable Optimism...Despite The Craziness Around You!
How easy it is to get "seduced" by all the gloom/doom slices of life the media feeds you each day. It's as if they want you to think THAT'S the "only" thing important, and/or the only thing "real". Well, the truth is that what's real for YOU is what YOU mentally dwell upon, and BELIEVE is real. And so, here are some powerful Message Of Life quotes, each designed to uplift, inspire,and enrich your mind-set with the GOOD that also exists!
