How to Get Him to Pleasure You

Some guys know exactly what buttons to push, which ear lobe to nipple, the exact right way to graze your breasts, and just what to whisper into your ear. Other guys…well…they need a bit more guidance in the area.

If your man is clueless as to what toots your horn and what doesn’t, these tips may help you help him:

1.    Speak up! This is not the time to be shy. If you hold your tongue now, it’ll only make things more awkward down the line when you can’t handle the lack of sexual pleasure anymore and finally pipe up. He’ll be upset that you didn’t say something sooner. He wants you to feel good just as much as you want to feel good.
2.    Stroke his ego. Telling him point blank that he sucks in the sack is a serious no-no. It’ll crush him, challenge his manhood. A good way to soften the blow is to pair constructive criticism with a compliment: “I loved when you kissed my nipples. Maybe next time use your tongue a little more, and even your teeth a bit.”
3.    Show him what you like. Sometimes actions speak louder than words. Take his hand and put it exactly where you want it. Then with your hand over his, show him how much pressure you like and the movements he should make.
4.    Do unto others as you would like done unto yourself. The golden rule applies to the bedroom as well. Maybe he’s never through of neck nooky? Maybe a little butt squeeze never crossed his mind? Get him sexually aroused through means you’d want him to use on you. By putting the ideas in his head, there’s a good chance he’ll return the favor by trying out what turned him on so fast, on you!
5.    Give him positive reinforcement. When he finally hits the nail on the head, let him know. You know how it’s done. Oohs, ahhs, groans, oh gods…you know the drill.