Decode His Post-Coital Position

How your guy moves after you’re done hooking up says a lot about your guy, and a lot about your relationship. Use these prototypes to decode your guy’s post-orgasm position:

The One-Arm Hugger

He may not have all his energy going into your post-coital cuddle, but his half-hug shows that he’s trying. He’s exhausted, but knows how important it is to keep the touch alive. So if he’s got one arm draped around you, don’t give him slack for slacking off. He’s just had sex, he’s tired, and he’s wants to just let loose and relax with you.

The Neck Nooker

This guy just can’t get enough of you. The way he pulls you into the crook of his shoulder, so close to his neck and cheek lets you know that just because sex is over, doesn’t mean he’s done with you. Sexual pleasure, for this dude, is foreplay for the big post-coital cuddle.

The Sexy Spooner

If he’s the big spoon in the picture, he’s probably a confident guy who’s a bit possessive and protective of you; he doesn’t want to let you go, almost like he’s reminding you who’s responsible for that bout of sexual pleasure the two of you just had. If he’s the inner spoon, he could be a bit needy, especially if you find that he’s pushing his body into yours, as though trying to become one. On the other hand, both spots show that a guy is sensitive to YOUR needs. He knows how important it is to you that sex is not an isolated physical event, and that you want the intimacy to continue into the night.

The Lone Cowboy

This guy gets the job done and then needs his space. He’s probably commitmentphobic or just not that into you. Let him know how much you still want to be near his body. If he’s not receptive, he’s probably not for you.