Ten Hot Tips to Light Your Woman's Fire

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Ten Hot Tips to Light Your Woman’s Fire
By Cynthia Perkins, M.Ed.

1. Touch
Women are very tactile beings. They love to be touched and
caressed. Hold her, massage her, tease and tantalize her
playfully with your fingers. Don’t go straight to the
genitals, pay attention to her whole body.

2. Kisses
Deep passionate kisses are one of the biggest turn ons for a
woman. Looking into her eyes or touching her face while
kissing her can increase the arousal of the kiss. Kissing
other parts of the body such as the neck, belly, inner
thighs, buttocks, pelvis area surrounding the vagina,
fingers and maybe even the feet for some can heighten her
pleasure.

3. Emotional Connection
For women, sex is usually an emotional act as well as a
physical act. The deeper the emotional connection, the
better the sex will be for her and the deeper her desire for
her lover will become. Share your feelings with your woman
and express how you feel about her freely. For her, what
goes on outside the bedroom is an important factor of what
will occur in the bedroom.

4. Foreplay & Aferplay
There is nothing that is a bigger turn off for a woman than
a lover who immediately begins penetration without tending
to her body and mind. Just as important as foreplay is the
period of time immediately following the sex, afterplay.
Afterplay reinforces how a woman feels about the sexual
experience and will have a great impact on how she responds
to her lover in the future.

5. Make Her Feel Important,
Women also need to feel important to their lover. Take an
active interest in who she is as a person and what goes on
in her life. Ignite your woman’s passion by making her feel
special, cherished and adored.

6. Value and Respect
For sex to be at its best, most women need to feel valued
and respected by their lover. Her desire and level of
satisfaction will grow deeper. She will want her lover more
frequently and be more motivated to meet his sexual needs as
well.

7. Listen
Women are more attracted to a man who listens to her and
actually hears her. Being heard makes her feel important and
valued, thereby increasing her feelings of intimacy with her
lover and encouraging her to be free and uninhibited in her
lovemaking. Her level of satisfaction is enhanced and her
desire for her lover increased.

8. Show Her Your Passion & Desire
A woman wants to be wanted passionately. She wants to see
your deep desire for her and feel how much you want her.
Pursue her passionately and she will be a wild cat full of
desire.

9. Take Your Time
The path to orgasm is just as fulfilling as the orgasm
itself and the path is also important for enhancing her
orgasmic experience. Take the long meandering road,
savoring, pampering and adoring every part of her body along
the way.

10. Be a Master of Oral
The majority of women cannot achieve orgasm through
intercourse. Taking pleasure in delighting your woman
orally is by far one of the most enjoyable ways for her to
be satisfied.