Once you have broken up with your partner and they have moved onto someone else, you automatically think that it is the end of your relationship. Well it doesn't have to be and how you behave can have a direct impact on whether you get back together or not.
Is it possible to get your ex back when he is in love with someone else and says he doesn't want to be with you anymore? How do you cope with a break up that is complicated by having someone new in the picture?
Well it is always possible. Couples do get back together after a break up, even when someone else has been involved. But it helps if you can give it a little nudge.
Remember that he used to love you. He used to enjoy being with you and around you. Just because someone else has caught his eye doesn't mean that that relationship is going to last. Over 75% of rebound relationships don't last – and you can help your ex to be one of that 75%.
At this point your ex is probably expecting you to go to pieces and be incredibly jealous of his new relationship. He will expect to get the blame and for you to either give him the cold shoulder, have a go at him at every opportunity or spend all day texting and e-mailing him to come back.
In truth, you may have already done one or all of these things. Although it is not the right thing to do to get him back, don't worry, there are steps you can take to make him think that you are moving on and getting over him.
Why would you want to make him think you are moving on when you so desperately want him back?
Well there is definitely some truth in the old saying "You always want what you can't have." The idea here is to make your ex wonder why you aren't sitting around pining for him – make him think about you. After all, whilst he's thinking about you he's not concentrating on the new girlfriend.
Everyone likes to think that they have the power of attraction, that other people want them, want to be in a relationship with them. Even though your ex ended it and no matter what he says, he will still want to think that you are interested in him and in being with him.
When he thinks you are moving on it will be difficult for him to resist trying to get your attention back. Its human nature – he doesn't want you but he doesn't want anyone else to have you.
This is what you need to concentrate on. Keep your distance, but be pleasant and friendly (not too friendly) when you see him. Deliberately avoid going to places you know he will be – you need to give him a chance to miss you. Don't get in touch with him and if he contacts you, keep it short, sweet and casual.
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