Learn How to Get Her Back in These 5 Steps

Ok, so you have lost your girlfriend or wife, and, after careful evaluation, you really feel that you and your ex are meant to get back together. If that is the case then you need to learn how to get her back. Learning how to get her back is not rocket science, but it does take some thinking and planning if you are going to be successful in your endeavor.This list of 5 steps is designed to get you going right now.1 - First thing you do (or in this case do NOT do) is going to go against your natural inclination. You do not want to try to make contact right away. Cut off communication for a while. This might be tough, and it may even hurt a little. In fact, if you really do belong with your ex, it probably should hurt. But it hopefully will be hurting her even more and that will set you up to get her back. In time she will realize how much she needs and misses you. Cutting off communication with her is one of the biggest and most vital steps in rekindling the relationship with your ex.2 - Allow yourself to recover emotionally, or rebound if you will. If you want to learn how to get her back, then you need to calm down and get your emotions in balance. Most women are not going to be attracted to men who appear desperate, clingy or needy. Make sure your own life is "together" and get over those broken feelings before you attempt to draw her back into a relationship. 3 - Find someone new that you are attracted to and flirt a little. This may seem counter intuitive in nature, but it is can be useful if you want to learn how to get her back. Talking to another girl can arouse a little jealousy in your ex and make her want to compete for you. This step actually has two benefits in that it will take away some of your stress and it will also let your ex girlfriend know that you are moving on with your life even if she is not in it. And that makes her want to be in your life all the more.4 - Act as if nothing is bothering you, and if you followed step 2 above, you may not have to fake it. In other words, if you want to learn how to get her back, you need to play it cool. She is not going to want to reattach herself to a loser or downer. She wants someone who will pick her up emotionally and make her feel better, not worse. You want to make her believe that you have successfully overcome the breakup and are doing just fine without her.5 - Look your best all of the time. You do not necessarily have to overdress in a manner that is not you, but definitely put some effort into how you look. Maybe even buy some new clothes if you can afford it and definitely go first class on the hygiene. You are hoping that she will not be able to resist you; and it won't hurt with step 3 above either. Your appearance can play a large role in showing your ex that you are moving on. Other people will notice also. If you make the effort to look great and look your best, your ex is going to notice, and will be a positive for you.This is just the beginning to learn how to get her back. There is much more to discuss and a lot more ideas to handle various situations.We try to cover some of the more advanced techniques in other articles and on the website at http://www.RelationshipAdviceHelp.com.Look forward to seeing you there.