Social Communication - Super Easy Strategies to Overcome Approach Anxiety - Part I

Social Communication - Super Easy Strategies to Overcome Approach Anxiety - Part I
All men, regardless of whatever or whoever they are, have approach anxiety. Unless he has special reasons for doing so, it happens on almost every approach when a man is trying to get value in social communication. How do you develop strategies to overcome it?
Part I - Change
The worst thing that you could do when you acknowledge that you have trouble picking up girls, or approaching women, is to sit around not doing anything about it.
It's a human psychological effect and that is that we as humans, do not like things which require a lot of energy to get us moving. But understanding that when a large energy is used to gain momentum, it will not stop unless a lot of force comes in to stop it forcefully.
Pick up your willpower and build energy to start the momentum For once it runs, you will never want to stop. Understand that we cannot change what we have. We cannot change the weather, we cannot change the economy, you cannot change what you have to build upon. What you can change however, is YOURSELF!
It is not as hard as it seems. Imagine the saying, an apple a day keeps the doctor away, if you change it to a Hershey's chocolate bar, the compounds effects at day 356 will start to appear on your ballooning stomach. Likewise, keep up with the baby steps to grow it into large strides and take flight, and the peak will be glorious.
It takes skill, education and knowledge. With that being said, the key is to find a way to overcome the natural need to just sit still and do nothing. Find a way which you can react positively towards to take action to work at it.
If you come this far into reading this, I expect that you already realize that you need to take some actions. Most often, we do not do anything beyond what I like to call our "pain threshold", one of the main keys in developing habits to overcome anything is to stand up, scream, force fully break through it again, again and again. In doing so, you increase your threshold and resistance, and the approach will get easier.
Unless you start to find the pain of sitting at home alone every night doing nothing as completely unacceptable, you are going to continue doing that.
Get this right, you have to change and you will do it for positive reasons. Understand that change comes easy if you take the correct steps and take steps slowly. Instead of going all out, do it slowly to gain momentum and increase as you get more experienced.
In the next few articles, I will give you 3 active strategies which WORK and WILL work if you use them.
Part II will be about motivational turbo change.
Towards Your Success, L. Aaron